So who else will be single this valentines day ?

[ebonyeyes]

:( Feel free to leave massages in my in box on the 14th to cheer me up :wink:

[Crash_Dark]

Me, of course. It's traditional! ;)

[Guy13]

I'm not, for once. YAY

[Flapjack501]

Hehe, I'll be single.

Never mind! That's life!

[Jessevision]

Umm yeah I will also be! have been for the past 2 years after a 4.5 year relationship blew up of which I'm glad to be out of and happy being single for the moment.

The whole Valentines day is typical yankee stuff if you ask me, I'm not too bothered by the whole concept :| I'd rather give a special person a 'gift made from myself' at any time rather than wait for this day to come around to prove my appreciation.

[Crash_Dark]

Umm yeah I will also be! have been for the past 2 years after a 4.5 year relationship blew up of which I'm glad to be out of and happy being single for the moment.

The whole Valentines day is typical yankee stuff if you ask me, I'm not too bothered by the whole concept :| I'd rather give a special person a 'gift made from myself' at any time rather than wait for this day to come around to prove my appreciation.

Yep, I'm with you on that Jesse - the commercialism has killed the romance of Valentine's Day, and that was the good bit!

[Guy13]

Yep, I'm with you on that Jesse - the commercialism has killed the romance of Valentine's Day, and that was the good bit!

The other half isn't in the least bit romantic, which is odd for a female, so that works for me. :wink: :D

[Crash_Dark]

Yep, I'm with you on that Jesse - the commercialism has killed the romance of Valentine's Day, and that was the good bit!

The other half isn't in the least bit romantic, which is odd for a female, so that works for me. :wink: :D

Aw, romance is great....

Hmmm. (Suspects Gothic tendancies AGAIN :D)

[IamFroggy]

Valentines day , bah humbug , I've always despised society telling people that THEY HAVE to show love , usually by spending money , on one freakin' day, while giving a very smug finger to those single , and making those that feel bad , worse!

BAHHH Humbug!!

[Jessevision]

Yes I like romance very much! ~ that gut feeling you get when you're with someone whom means so much to you and how much you enjoy there company and to touch, cuddle, smile, laugh with, kiss etc it's all fun! :wink: Unfortunately I've yet met that special one :(

Guy13 you should feel fortunate you've found your match. :P

[snoww_wwhite]

Yep, I'm with you on that Jesse - the commercialism has killed the romance of Valentine's Day, and that was the good bit!

The other half isn't in the least bit romantic, which is odd for a female, so that works for me. :wink: :D

Aw, romance is great....

Hmmm. (Suspects Gothic tendancies AGAIN :D)

nothing to do with gothic..

... i found that if you say that you do not celebrate those publically set celebration days, then chances are that you never will. its good as peopel can look forward to it and you see, i was totally flabbergahsted when i got valentines cards from somebody and never knew who from..

... the feeling is unbelievable, even though i was very happily in love at the time, it flatters you so much :D

also the time when 12 incredible red roses arrived .... fantastic...

but then again, i am a vain and posh bitch, so that would pander nicely to my ego ;)

[ebonyeyes]

On one level I do agree that its over commercialised and in a sence fales. But on an other, if a boyfriend was to agree with me and not get me anything, he'd be in for it :lol:

[Rivetmike]

On one level I do agree that its over commercialised and in a sence fales. But on an other, if a boyfriend was to agree with me and not get me anything, he'd be in for it :lol:

A perfect example of why men can do no right.

Isn't it better to show the love consistently all year than making overblown gestures than inevitably line Clinton cards pockets.

Rivetmike

[snoww_wwhite]

actually, come to think of it... would be a cute idea if slimelight had a big pinboard, where people could pin up their secret admiring letters to others or a big box or something... hehe, what a chaos that would create hahaha....

or a kinky kupid who hand delivers them

http://members.aol.com/Fri13Hour/cupid.jpg
:twisted:

[snoww_wwhite]

On one level I do agree that its over commercialised and in a sence fales. But on an other, if a boyfriend was to agree with me and not get me anything, he'd be in for it :lol:

A perfect example of why men can do no right.

Isn't it better to show the love consistently all year than making overblown gestures than inevitable line Clinton cards pockets.

Rivetmike

who said about cards from some shop? i make my cards myself...

well, i guess its good to show your appreciation all year round though with stress and life being the shitty thing that it is, its hard to always remember to appreciate your partner. also valentines day is the day where not just lovers show their affection, its also the day where people are allowed to send secret admiration cards or token.... and to be honest, i would love to see your face if Berzerk Angel got a bunch of roses from somebody, not knowing who sent them.... *sniggers* i should really do it,. shame i cannot be there to see it ;)

:twisted: :D

[Rivetmike]

and to be honest, i would love to see your face if Berzerk Angel got a bunch of roses from somebody, not knowing who sent them.... *sniggers* i should really do it,. shame i cannot be there to see it ;)

:twisted: :D

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest as I'm not the jealous type.Of course I'd be curious as to the sender.

I'd take it as a backhanded compliment that if people fancy my missus then it means that I must be doing something right.

Better to have people look at your other half admiringly than think they are a bit ropey,eh?

Rivetmike

[snoww_wwhite]

and to be honest, i would love to see your face if Berzerk Angel got a bunch of roses from somebody, not knowing who sent them.... *sniggers* i should really do it,. shame i cannot be there to see it ;)

:twisted: :D

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest as I'm not the jealous type.Of course I'd be curious as to the sender.

I'd take it as a backhanded compliment that if people fancy my missus then it means that I must be doing something right.

Better to have people look at your other half admiringly than think they are a bit ropey,eh?

Rivetmike

LOLOL... nutter, your face would be great to see no matter what and...

hmmmmmm Berzerk Angel in ropes... *goes to take a cold shower*

[darkmogwai]

I'm not single this Valentines (sorry everyone) but I also have no money so I can't get presents or cards. Thankfully she's skint too, so we've agreed that we're just going to skip the whole thing and then do something nice when we both get paid :D

[star-gazer]

Yep, I'm with you on that Jesse - the commercialism has killed the romance of Valentine's Day, and that was the good bit!

The other half isn't in the least bit romantic, which is odd for a female, so that works for me. :wink: :D

Aw, romance is great....

Hmmm. (Suspects Gothic tendancies AGAIN :D)

tut tut tut! bloody goths and their fairytale idealisms! :wink:

[lillyxxxo]

i will b single 2 :roll: oh well thats life :cry:

[Lenorina]

i will b single 2 :roll: oh well thats life :cry:

Don't worry I'm afraid you're not the only one.... :wink:
Anyway....mal de muchos, consuelo de tontos

[Magif]

I may as well be single. My girlfriend is back in South Africa.

Hopefully if all goes well she will be here for next years valentine ripoff.

[Lenorina]

I may as well be single. My girlfriend is back in South Africa.

Hopefully if all goes well she will be here for next years valentine ripoff.

Ummm....that's not being single...

[Crash_Dark]

Yep, I'm with you on that Jesse - the commercialism has killed the romance of Valentine's Day, and that was the good bit!

The other half isn't in the least bit romantic, which is odd for a female, so that works for me. :wink: :D

Aw, romance is great....

Hmmm. (Suspects Gothic tendancies AGAIN :D)

tut tut tut! bloody goths and their fairytale idealisms! :wink:

Idealism. moi? (Just because I'm trying to catch consumption to match my outfit....) :D

[Guy13]

tut tut tut! bloody goths and their fairytale idealisms! :wink:

Idealism. moi? (Just because I'm trying to catch consumption to match my outfit....) :D

I shall have to call you Tiny Tim if you catch consumption. :twisted: :wink:

[Crash_Dark]

tut tut tut! bloody goths and their fairytale idealisms! :wink:

Idealism. moi? (Just because I'm trying to catch consumption to match my outfit....) :D

I shall have to call you Tiny Tim if you catch consumption. :twisted: :wink:

That's odd, that's not the reason I normally get called that ;)

[Guy13]

I shall have to call you Tiny Tim if you catch consumption. :twisted: :wink:

That's odd, that's not the reason I normally get called that ;)
Stormtrooper Elvis says...now that's what I call a tiny tim! :twisted: :wink:
http://www.syslog.com/~jwilson/pics-i-like/Dragon2004-Sat311.JPG

[Flapjack501]

Not that I'm volunteering.

Still haven't found a girl I like enough to get in a relationship with. Or maybe I'm just too damn picky. Ah well, who cares, may aswell get someone perfect...nothing wrong with becoming good mates with all the girls who either don't like you enough to go into a relationship or the other way around.

I don't like Valentines day anyway, as mentioned it's just another commercial holiday in order to make money.

[bertrand]

You know what is worth than havin no girlfriend aty valentine's day ?
Havin one livin in London, something like two stations ago from your home, and have an argument the day before. At least, it will be more economic (not sure, i go to the Key to see LCD Soundsystem, and i will have to drink a fuckin lot to enjoy the night.)

[pamdora2000]

As I split up with my boyfriend in November I will be on my own tomorrow, specially also because he's in Madrid enjoying Decibelio Festival. Anyway, I do not care much about that particular day...

But what I wanted to ask is: what is so terrible about not having a partner/love relationship on the 14th of February?

Or even more, what is so terrible about not having a partner/love relationship??

If you don't have a partner, just enjoy the freedom you have to do what pleases you, when you want, where you want...!!

Anyway, I don't believe that in these days and age, our society can support long term relationships at all. That was for the old days, but not for the present times anymore.

That's the XXI century for us. We just have to face it.

Enjoy your 14th of February, either if you are with somebody or not. Either if you celebrate it or not.

Enjoy as any other day!!

ALL OF YOU!!

[DISSMANTLED]

have any of you seen the shit their selling in clintons? stupid little things like fluffy handcuffs that simply couldnt take any force whatsoever!? and dont get me started on the cards!! If someone ever gave me one of those horrid cartoony cards with a sexual double an taundre (really dno how to spell that!)in it, i'd probably shoot them in the face, its sickening! Thats not romance! thats sex! thats all valentines day is, im sure the furry handcuffs and lubricants have been flying off the shelves! 8O

im going to be semi single this v-day, due to my boyfriend being an insensitive asshole that i hate right now! :D i suggest everyone single takes the money they WOULD spend on a present and buy themselves something nice with it!

happy valentines day! :wink:

[pamdora2000]

i suggest everyone single takes the money they WOULD spend on a present and buy themselves something nice with it!

happy valentines day! :wink:

What a brilliant idea!!! :)

Yeah, if you believe in Valentine but don't have a Valentine, buy yourself a nice present and love yourself more on the 14th of February than any other day in the year!!

If you don't believe in Valentine, buy yourself something nice and love yourself anyway like any other day...

[Antagonist]

wow pamdora, you're really spreading the love this evening!!

I'm still single (of course) but am meeting up with a new friend tomorrow, so who knows? Not quite a date yet but it could be the beginning of something! :D

goddamn it's monday again!!

[pamdora2000]

wow pamdora, you're really spreading the love this evening!!

I'm still single (of course) but am meeting up with a new friend tomorrow, so who knows? Not quite a date yet but it could be the beginning of something! :D

goddamn it's monday again!!

Am I spreading love?? 8O :?

Yeah, I am often accused of that... But it is not my intention, honest. :P

Meeting with a friend is always the beginning of something, no matter what happens. Don't forget to take lollipops with you though!! They are very effective!!! :)

PS: No, I am not on mushrooms...

[Antagonist]

PS: No, I am not on mushrooms...

Well you should be. they make everything ok.... well, maybe not ok, but odder, which is always good.

AAAH THE CURTAINS!!!

:twisted: :P :evil:

[pamdora2000]

PS: No, I am not on mushrooms...

Well you should be. they make everything ok.... well, maybe not ok, but odder, which is always good.

AAAH THE CURTAINS!!!

:twisted: :P :evil:

8O :D :P :twisted:

Yeah, had them properly once and could not believe how nice and hilarious it was. We were four at home and a pumpkin was our true great new friend.

It was a beautiful smiling pumpkin and Halloween was coming...

Poor pumpkin, it became a soup...
8O :? :(

[snoww_wwhite]

love yourself anyway like any other day...

hehe, i might love myself a tad too much at times... i found that ultimately i am the only one who can feel unconditional love for me and does not suffer from prejudice against me ;)

maybe i like my own company so much that i really do not need anyone else to keep me company, in case anyone ever wonders why i am mostly dancing by myself... its by choice :)

[Crash_Dark]

have any of you seen the shit their selling in clintons? stupid little things like fluffy handcuffs that simply couldnt take any force whatsoever!?


Arrgghhh those fluffy plastic handcuffs are a pet hate. I mean, what's the point, really? :roll:

[DISSMANTLED]

I KNOW! arent they awful? Valentines day is not about kinky sexual adventures, (with inferior equipment! :wink: ) its not just about sex like the shops say. RAGE!! wow, im bitter.

i admire anybody who can openly say they love themself without feeling the need to justify it with a "because. i can handle my drink" or whatever! :P you go snowwy!! :wink:

[Crash_Dark]

Personally, I think that Valentine's day shouldn't be about demonstrating the extent of your love by how much you spend - that's where the commercialism has made it go wrong. Kinky sexual adventures are fine, and can be part of the fun, but plastic handcuffs aren't exactly kinky...or anything else (except pointless). Grrrr

As for loving yourself, I guess that if you can do that it's quite healthy (as long as you don't love yourself TOO much LOL), but I'd be happy with being able to LIKE myself a bit...(Goth! 8O :D )

I KNOW! arent they awful? Valentines day is not about kinky sexual adventures, (with inferior equipment! :wink: ) its not just about sex like the shops say. RAGE!! wow, im bitter.

i admire anybody who can openly say they love themself without feeling the need to justify it with a "because. i can handle my drink" or whatever! :P you go snowwy!! :wink:

[snoww_wwhite]

Personally, I think that Valentine's day shouldn't be about demonstrating the extent of your love by how much you spend - that's where the commercialism has made it go wrong. Kinky sexual adventures are fine, and can be part of the fun, but plastic handcuffs aren't exactly kinky...or anything else (except pointless). Grrrr

As for loving yourself, I guess that if you can do that it's quite healthy (as long as you don't love yourself TOO much LOL), but I'd be happy with being able to LIKE myself a bit...(Goth! 8O :D )

I KNOW! arent they awful? Valentines day is not about kinky sexual adventures, (with inferior equipment! :wink: ) its not just about sex like the shops say. RAGE!! wow, im bitter.

i admire anybody who can openly say they love themself without feeling the need to justify it with a "because. i can handle my drink" or whatever! :P you go snowwy!! :wink:


ah well the extend of my self love varies, i found a healthy amount of self hate/loathing works wonders too from time to time ;)

quite seriously though who could in their right mind say that they either love or hate themself all of the time?

i settle for, i like myself a lot of the time

[Guy13]

Spreading the love...Boyd Rice style.... :twisted:

[ebonyeyes]

Hey peeps some really thought provoking stuff thanks, like the idear about getting your self something nice, I'm happy with the fredom that being single brings, its just the 14th feb reminds you of what you don't have.

A word of caution, a mate of mine ODed on shrooms she was tripping for 4 days, couldn't hold a thought in her head and was very distressed. Just because there natural doesn't mean there safe, so be carful not to over do it.

[absinthesleep]

Though I do hate Valentines day with a passion, this year wasn't so bad. I just broke up with my boy of a year. Which aloud me to do my own thing.
I ended up Fire spinning and Fire eating all Valentines Day...mmmm blistering mouth.

The only thing i al disappointed with is, I DIDN'T GET ONE FREAKING CINNAMON HEART!

[SheIsMySin]

single for the first time in 4 1/2 years and i must say, its the best fun ive ever had. i forgot how great it was to slut around without needing to say "sorry i have a bf/gf"

on the downside, i dont have the internet at my beck and call anymore :(

[IamFroggy]

Valentines day , like the hurried lover , it came and went , we survived. horray. till next time ...

[Penny]

Me, of course. It's traditional! ;)

I've decided this is going to be me now too and I am going to make it a Tradition :lol:

It's alot less hassle :D

[Penny]

single for the first time in 4 1/2 years and i must say, its the best fun ive ever had. i forgot how great it was to slut around without needing to say "sorry i have a bf/gf"

on the downside, i dont have the internet at my beck and call anymore :(


Hahaha what a Genius thing to write :) I need to read things like this now i have become single !!! :D

[Jessevision]

Glad to see few here are quite content with the single life. :wink:

[snoww_wwhite]

well i made it til after valentines (only so i could get the pressies of course)

but iam officially single now... not sure if that is better than being a couple but its different and in order to celebrate it, i have bought myself a set of new clothes

yay for retail therapy!!!!!

[IamFroggy]

OHHH retail therapy rocks! Oh how it does. But is it the act of shopping itself or the recieving of the goods ?*stamps feets and waits for those piercing spikes from amercia*

[snoww_wwhite]

OHHH retail therapy rocks! Oh how it does. But is it the act of shopping itself or the recieving of the goods ?*stamps feets and waits for those piercing spikes from amercia*

PIERCING... you just said it... i was pondering that but my ex mister didnt like the idea ;)

ahhhh.. well now i need to get the courage first ;)

[IamFroggy]

PIERCING... you just said it... i was pondering that but my ex mister didnt like the idea ;)

ahhhh.. well now i need to get the courage first ;)

Didn't like the idea ...? crazi , kudos to you for respecting your partner / against no kudos for allowing your self expression to halted ... meh who can say ! :)

What would you have done? facial? or body?

[snoww_wwhite]

PIERCING... you just said it... i was pondering that but my ex mister didnt like the idea ;)

ahhhh.. well now i need to get the courage first ;)

Didn't like the idea ...? crazi , kudos to you for respecting your partner / against no kudos for allowing your self expression to halted ... meh who can say ! :)

What would you have done? facial? or body?


haha considering that he was my dominant partner ;) ...
... anyway i was pondering and i am still not sure if it should go ahead as it might cause a bit of a problem if i have to go into the office - labret.

if i can put a retainer in that is almost invisible it should be okay and i seriously hope i dont have to go into the office for a good number of weeks ... but who knows

[IamFroggy]

Ah labretes are good (me = x3). Pain to look after while they are healing though.

Clear retainers do help it become less visable ... from a distance , but it just looks ilke a clear visible piercing at any closeness (I dont know if people who do not approve of such things would give it any distinction).

As for office rules , well I guess im lucky in that respect ... It helps not to be customer facing ...

[snoww_wwhite]

Ah labretes are good (me = x3). Pain to look after while they are healing though.

Clear retainers do help it become less visable ... from a distance , but it just looks ilke a clear visible piercing at any closeness (I dont know if people who do not approve of such things would give it any distinction).

As for office rules , well I guess im lucky in that respect ... It helps not to be customer facing ...

i think i would have 3 facial piercings in the whole of my face... i want mine to be an addition to my features, not dominate them ;)

[IamFroggy]

Yes I have 5 in my face plus all the bars in my ears , I stoped there as i didnt want things to go ott, love ma spikes :)

[DISSMANTLED]

sometimes its possible to nearly completely hide a labret from view, just as long as you have a large lower lip!! dno how to xplain it but my lower lip curves over slightly and hides my labret almost entirely if i keep small jewellery in it. it also may help to pierce at a 1.2 mil instead of the regular 1.6, smaller jewellery, less visible! :D unfortunatly i didnt stop with the ears and face piercing, iv got a lot of weird scars from body piercings now :cry:
go for it snowwy, sod the office! :wink:

on another note, im finding the recent club news confusing, during the resistance festival, the club runs as usual yes? when is the next regular three floor event? is the "trad goth special" very different to other three floor events? :? - any responses much appreciated :D

[snoww_wwhite]

sometimes its possible to nearly completely hide a labret from view, just as long as you have a large lower lip!! dno how to xplain it but my lower lip curves over slightly and hides my labret almost entirely if i keep small jewellery in it. it also may help to pierce at a 1.2 mil instead of the regular 1.6, smaller jewellery, less visible! :D unfortunatly i didnt stop with the ears and face piercing, iv got a lot of weird scars from body piercings now :cry:
go for it snowwy, sod the office! :wink:

on another note, im finding the recent club news confusing, during the resistance festival, the club runs as usual yes? when is the next regular three floor event? is the "trad goth special" very different to other three floor events? :? - any responses much appreciated :D

yes, i find it confusing too especially that it looks as if The Legenday Pink Dots are playing on the same weekend as well... lots of confusion

also it could not be like any normal three floor as it seems that Resistance will occupy the first floor - extremely confusing but no matter what, unless i catch bubonic plague i will try to be there.

[Penny]

Yup :lol: I work in an enviroment where it's unfortunatly totally unexceptable to have a labret or facial piercing, so i went on Ebay and bought clear labret retainers - My boss's havent even noticed hehe

*Had to take 2 weeks off work though for the 'initial' healing*

:twisted: Do it !!!!

[Crash_Dark]

I doubt I'd get away with even a clear labret in this up-tight environment :(

[Penny]

Doesnt sound good :(

*feels for ya*

<3 :cry:

[Crash_Dark]

Aw, thanks Penny.

I'm kind of used to it now. I just have to get things pierced that don't normally show, instead ;)

Doesnt sound good :(

*feels for ya*

<3 :cry:

[Rivetmike]

I just have to get things pierced that don't normally show, instead ;)



Join crash as he pioneers kidney piercing........

Rivetmike

[Crash_Dark]

I just have to get things pierced that don't normally show, instead ;)



Join crash as he pioneers kidney piercing........

Rivetmike

Teehee. Front-to-back. It take a looooong bar though! ;)

[IamFroggy]

I doubt I'd get away with even a clear labret in this up-tight environment :(

Aww , that sounds draining :( , I'm quite lucky in ma place :(

[IamFroggy]

Yup :lol: I work in an enviroment where it's unfortunatly totally unexceptable to have a labret or facial piercing, so i went on Ebay and bought clear labret retainers - My boss's havent even noticed hehe

*Had to take 2 weeks off work though for the 'initial' healing*

:twisted: Do it !!!!


REALLY? LOL I dont know, it depends on yar skin tone I suppose and the shape of your lip, I'm sure they just stand out on me!
Piercings are great , but then again , so is being able to pay your rent , careful now!

[Penny]

Like I said - Its a clear one so its transparent you can hardly see it at all :)

[IamFroggy]

:) heh yes , but i've got darker skin , while transparent ones might blend into soe skin tones , for me i bet they'd just look like bit of plastic on my face! hmm worth a try though *makes notes for future reference*